Elyse Watches The Bachelorette – Episode 3: A Skeleton of a Man

Elyse Watches The Bachelorette with Kraken Rum and Coke with a big rose at the bottomI had such a lovely day today. I was off from work. I slept in, then read in bed and snuggled cats. I went shopping for flowers for my patio, stocked up on wine, and bought a cake because I wanted cake. I took a nap. It might have been a wine nap.

Now I’m going to undo all that self-care by watching The Bachelorette. Last week Sweet, Dumb Jordan became Gross, Dumb Jordan when he decided his strategy was to not wear pants. Colton told Becca he spent a hot weekend with Tia. I got real drunk on rum and Cokes.

This week opens with a Becca hanging with her girlfriends, including Tia and Bekah M from last season. They sip mimosas and eat croissants. Tia says that she and Colton split before the most recent season of The Bachelor aired. Becca wonders if Colton thought Tia might be this season’s  Bachelorette.

The dudes are interrupted having breakfast by Chris Harrison. He reiterates that Becca is not fucking around this season. Then he tells a select group of dudes, including Colton, that they’re going on a group date. The dudes are taken to a spa where Becca and her friends are waiting to be pampered.

Becca, Tia and another woman hug each other. They are wrapped up in suuuper fuzzy throws and look comfy af
Becca (right), hangs out with Tia (middle) and another one of their friends

Gross, Dumb Jordan is among the group and you know some PA was like, “Hey buddy, you got your pants on? I…no, put on pants first, then shoes, pal. Yup. Yup. Okay, good job dude!” Then they toss a liver snap into Jordan’s mouth.

Becca totally forgets Jason’s name and I cackle because I’m a child.

The dudes paint Becca and her friends’ nails and give shoulder rubs. Tia pulls Becca aside and says that she and Colton never did more than kiss (Colton makes it sound like they had a sex-soaked weekend), and that when Colton told her that he signed up for The Bachelorette she thought “ew.” She decided “to stay friends.” Then Tia tells Becca she loves her, and they share a hug that’s way more affectionate than anything I’ve seen so far this season.

Then it’s time for the cocktail hour.

Because we can’t have nice things, David, the guy who was previously dressed as a chicken, tells Becca that Jordan brags about his 4,000 matches on Tinder and that his swipe percentage is 100. That’s pretty impressive for a guy who can only get his pants on correctly every other episode.

Good work, Jordan

Charlie Day gives a slow and awkward thumbs up

Becca says to Jordan, “Hey, 4000 matches? That’s a good streak,” and high fives him in a super sarcastic way.

“That’s a bitch move,” Gross, Dumb Jordan tells David. “You’re a bitch.”

Excuse me.


Donna from Parks n Rec says excuse me

You do not get to go throwing around that term like you know what it means, you irrelevant little dumpster fire.

Oh, no. I am a bitch. I can dead eye stare a man so cold his nuts shrivel. I can smell toxic masculinity from 1000 feet away. I am slowly picking away at the patriarchy, brick by brick, because I am glorious and terrible, and to be feared. You, little man, have no idea what the word “bitch” means.

[ed. note: Can confirm.]

Back to the show!

Gross, Dumb Jordan“You are a skeleton of a man,” Gross, Dumb Jordan tells David.

Nope, he’s definitely not a skeleton. Pretty sure they would have shut down production for that. 

So then Jordan sits down with Becca.

“I know it’s hard with me being, like, a model,” he says. (It’s not, but okay). “And it’s tough. It’s like genuine. I can’t find anyone that matches the intensity. The fun. I’m looking for someone that’s wholesome. Someone that’s not only pretty, but smart. Someone who has that bright smile. You have such a bright smile.”

Becca smiles in a way that makes me think she’s enjoying this. Kind of the way a cat fucks with a mouse before it eats it, and then eventually barfs mouse guts next to the bed at four a.m.

She leans forward, chin on the palm of her hand. “How are you in a relationship as a partner?” she asks. Then she takes a slug of a drink that I am assuming, based on where this conversation is going, is made up entirely of clear liquor, ice and a lime.

“Me?” Jordan asks, even though there’s no one else there. “I’ll do everything. I cook. I clean. I’m a golden retriever.”

“That’s super fucking unfair to golden retrievers,” says Rich. He’s buried under Dewey who is exhausted from supervising the tree trimming people all afternoon.

“I could be a boyfriend and have a total girl’s day,” Jordan continues.

Becca is laughing hard enough that she’s got drops of her drink on her upper lip.

“I’m like always going to be in my element because this is like dating. This is like dating Becca,” he concludes. “You’re something I can see my self next to. You’re the goal.”

So then Jordan goes back to the drinking couch and he and David are just bickering at each other, and I shit you not, the other guys are just downing their cocktails, heads thrown back, looking for the sweet release of liquor. Jason pulls a pillow over his face and slumps down.

“It’s funny you think I’m a joke,” Jordan says. ” I’m a [indecipherable] model, I don’t think you know what that means,  and I have an edge. If you’re trying to tear down my image, and my three year contract with them, that’s pretty serious. It’s something some people consider the top. So if you’re trying to do that, you’re failing at it, because guess what. Attached to me is professionality. It’s my FACE. It’s everything I do. It’s the way I walk. It’s the way I talk. Okay? So if you wanna wreck my image, you’ll never succeed  because my image is ME.”

“That was fucking awesome,” Jason says from behind his pillow.

Patsy from AbFab drinks Stoli right out of the bottle

Since we still haven’t milked the Colton/Tia thing enough, Becca talks to him about it again and decides she still wants to get to know him.

We’ve devoted more time here to Colton and Tia than they actually spent together.

Old Rose from The Titantic says it's been 84 years

So then Colton gets the group date rose.

Next up is a one-on-one date with Chris. They go to Capitol Records where Richard Marx is waiting for them. (Right here, waiting. For them.) Richard is going to help them write a love song and Chris looks terrified. I feel so bad for him right now.

Chris says he doesn’t like to be vulnerable because a few years ago he wrote his dad a letter, asking him to be part of his life, and he got shut down. When Chris reads his lyrics, they’re really good and Becca tells him she can’t believe he could doubt his talent.

So now we’re an hour into this and I have what I like to call “the wine sweats.”

“Is it super hot in here?” I ask Rich. “Should we turn on the AC?”

Rich points out that it’s only 70 degrees, but I did drink most of a bottle of wine and eat part of a cake so….

I’m living my best life, you guys.

Back at the McMansion, Jordan asks Colton about Tia. Colton is actually pretty decent about it and just says that he wouldn’t want to discuss anyone’s ex on camera and that it’s not open for discussion.

But we’re talking Gross, Dumb Jordan here, so he doesn’t get that message. He says that the guys wanted to discuss his dating history.

“The guys” are pretty emphatic that they actually do not want to discuss Jordan’s dating history, but that he wanted to tell everyone about his eleventy billion Tinder matches or whatever.

So then Jordan says, “I talk to God everyday and God knows, if Jordan’s got an issue with someone, 86 ’em.”

Minnie Driver says okay then with wide eyes and ample sarcasm

Then we cut back to Chris and Becca having dinner (where they aren’t allowed to eat) and Chris tells her how his dad abandoned the family and cut off all contact with him. She gives him a rose.

Then a door opens and Richard Marx is playing the piano and singing. Did…did you not go home, buddy? Just gonna follow us around singing? I…okay.

Is Richard trying to edge on Chris Harrison’s creeper territory? Does the episode end with the two of them rolling around on the slick McMansion driveway, throwing punches? Who will the Rose God choose?

So, then, we cut back to the McMansion where we get grainy camera footage of a guy in his boxers being carried down the stairs on a stretcher by EMTs. Lincoln says he saw David slumped on the ground, surrounded in blood. An ambulance takes David away.

The next morning the guys are all discussing what happened. Chris Harrison surprises Becca at her hotel and tell her “there was an incident at the house last night.” Chris says David is in the ICU with a “busted face.”

Apparently David fell out of bed and landed on his face. For the record the dudes are sleeping in bunk beds. Also I’m pretty sure a lot of booze was involved. 

Becca calls him and he tells her that he’s looking forward to healing up and being part of her “journey.”

Next up is a group date. Malissa Miles and Dina Karwoski from the Legends Football League are there to put the dudes through their paces. Clay, a NFL player, is in his element.

Becca wears a football jersey

After drills, the guys play against each other in front of a live audience. During the game Clay injures his wrist and is taken away by ambulance.

During the cocktail hour, Blake is struggling with having to share Becca with other guys. What the fuck did you think you were signing up for, dude?

He tries to tell Becca about his insecurities and she just looks exhausted. “I just want to take a nap,” she says, then quickly adds, “with you.”

So then Clay comes back, arm in a sling. Blake is clearly uncomfortable by the amount of attention Becca is giving Clay. He does this thing where he kind of sinks down in his coat and pulls the collar up, like a jealous little turtle.

Also we’re at the point where everyone is kissing Becca and you know they’re all going to have the same cold next week.

One of the Real Housewives of NY gags

Clay gets the group date rose.

Then, because time is an illusion in Bachelorette world, it’s the next night and therefore time for the pre-Dreaded Rose Ceremony cocktail party.

David is still in the hospital I guess. How hard did he hit his face? Jesus.

We find out that Clay needs immediate surgery on his wrist if he’s going to keep playing football professionally. He tells Becca that he has to leave the show. Becca cries as he’s driven away.

So that’s where the episode ends. I’m going to take some ibuprofen and drink a bunch of water. Are you still watching?


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